Those of you that are sending private messages are not reading the forums and are obviously not following the forum guidelines.
If you have a question it is more likely to be answered by the group as it will be seen by everyone. If you send a private message only one person sees it and will most likely simply delete it.
In other words you are wasting your own time as well as the person's that you PM.
Also, your question may help others with their problem so post in the friendster forum and stop PM'ing.
Please do not email the members of this forum either, as many of them delete these messages straight away. Post it in the correct forum and you will get a response.